What are you certain about in life? What are you certain about in life, in general, and in your life specifically? People say there’s two certainties, death and taxes. They fail to see that there’s also the certainty of life that life keeps going on. What are you just certain about? There’s so much uncertainty in the world. What is something you just know? You know it through and through.
Certainty is one of the key ingredients that attracts things to you and that helps you develop the life that you want. Think about things you would normally take for granted, like eating dinner at night. You eat dinner at night, in the evening, because you are certain that that’s what you’re going to do. You’re so certain that it’s not even so much as a conscious thought. You just know that you’re going to eat dinner that night. If you've developed an exercise program, over time, you become certain about that. I am certain I’m going to go running tomorrow, because I go running every day and I'm just certain about that. I am certain that I am going to fill my gas tank when my car runs out of gas. You don’t question it. You don’t wonder, “Am I going to fill my tank, or am I just not going to not drive anymore?” You’re certain that that’s what you need to do and that’s what you’re going to do, and therefore it happens.
Now, what are you uncertain about? Whatever you are uncertain about often does not happen like that, like those other things do. Because you are uncertain, which means you are insecure, which means you are not vibing the vibe to bring that to you. You are not being a co-creator of that manifestation. When you do not feel certain that you are entitled to abundance in your life, when you don’t feel certain that you are entitled to money or that you’re ever going to have money to the point where you don’t have to worry about things, you don’t have to worry about anything because you can buy whatever it is that you want, and you’re not stressed out about it. Most of us don’t have that certainty. We wonder. We wonder if we’re worthy. We wonder if it’s really possible. We wonder if there’s enough. We wonder how it’s going to happen. We don’t always know how it’s going to happen. We don’t always need to know how it’s going to happen.
The important thing is that we know that it’s happening. That we know that it’s there for us. If you feel cynical about something, if you feel cynical about having a healthy body. If you feel cynical about getting into a great relationship. If you know it’s never going to happen, “it’s just not, I know it’s not.” "I've had bad experiences. "I've tried." That’s just a way to not take responsibility. When you say, and not only say, but when you believe that “I know that’s there for me.” "I know it." "I’m certain." Then it comes to you, and the more certain that you are about things the easier they come into your possession. The easier they manifest them. I've meet people who've had bodies that were imbalanced or sickly and they've made excuses like, This is the way I've always been." "I've been this way since high school." "It’s just my body." Well you’re pretty certain about that aren't you?
If you’re that certain about it, you’re right, that’s the way it will always be. However, if you are certain that you want your body to be healthy and strong and balanced and you’re certain that that is your birthright, that’s what’s going to happen. It doesn't mean you don’t do your part and make the effort to make that happen, but the first key is to be certain that that is what you want and that is what’s going to happen.
Sometimes we don’t manifest things, because we’re uncertain that we really want them. That means change, and change is scary. "Is that something I really want?" If you look at things in your life that you've manifested, most often, it was because you were certain that you wanted them, and you were certain that you deserve them.
Take a look in your life. What are the things in your life that you don’t have that you’d like to have? Those are the things that you are insecure about that you don’t feel really confident about. If you can focus your energy, and you can do this. Focus your energy on how that is going to be a certainty, as certain as the sun is going to come up in the morning, and keep focusing on that. So shall it be!
Heather Hans, LCSW, MSW, MBA, CPIC, is a Visionary, Healer & Teacher, and the author of The Heart of Self-Love: How to Radiate with Confidence. It is Heather's firm belief that loving oneself is necessary to have fulfilling relationships and a successful life.