If you want to be showered with love & good fortune, you have to take full responsibility and you can’t blame.

Okay, maybe for one minute when you’re really hurt & mad, but then you have to see it as a gift here to teach you something.

If you blame an unloving world or hostile people, or God or lack thereof, or your childhood circumstances, you get temporary relief, but then you’re left in a state of lovelessness and poverty.

In the 1980’s at a Hawaii state hospital, there was a ward for the mentally ill criminals who had committed murder, rape, kidnapping, extreme violence. A psychologist came on board and completely cured the ward without ever seeing any of them.

He did it by studying their charts and looking within himself to see how he created that person’s illness. As he improved himself, the patient improved.

Whatever or whoever is a problem in your life will show up, either in yourself or in the people in your life, until you heal it. This universe, just like the body, is an infinitely intelligent system.



Heather Hans, LCSW, MSW, MBA, CPIC, is a Visionary, Healer & Teacher, and the author of The Heart of Self-Love: How to Radiate with ConfidenceIt is Heather's firm belief that loving oneself is necessary to have fulfilling relationships and a successful life.  Join Heather’s 30-Day confidence challenge at