What makes you beautiful? Sophia Loren said, “Nothing makes a woman more beautiful than the belief that she is beautiful.” The belief!
Life is a hologram. Everything on the inside reflects the outside. Everything on the outside reflects the inside. When we believe that we are beautiful it shows in our outwardly appearance. If you have a beautiful person, physically, who doesn’t feel love, who doesn’t feel goodness, who feels low about themselves, they are not going to radiate beauty. You might notice them at first because of their features, but they don’t radiate that beauty. Likewise you can see someone who doesn’t look like a stereotypical model who is very beautiful and delicious and succulent. Why? Because they feel beautiful. They feel beautiful!
Feeling comes from belief. When we believe we are a certain way, so shall it be. Do you believe you are beautiful? If you don’t answer a solid YES to that question then you likely don’t believe you are beautiful. Take away just that little bit of education. You don’t have to change overnight, but if you can hold on to that little piece of knowledge that, “If I think and believe myself to be something then I am that which I believe. If I think and believe that I am beautiful and attractive and radiant, that is what I am. I am that I am.”
You ARE beautiful! Let’s get your belief system congruent with that fact.
Heather Hans, LCSW, MSW, MBA, CPIC, is a Visionary, Healer & Teacher, and the author of The Heart of Self-Love: How to Radiate with Confidence. It is Heather's firm belief that loving oneself is necessary to have fulfilling relationships and a successful life.