So, I had a boyfriend once who nearly fell on the floor when I told him my fantasy was to see him with another man.

Woman to woman fantasies have been accepted for eons. Why? Because “the man” likes it.

Well I am an equal opportunity visionary.

Heck, it’s more interesting than watching them watch football! Am I right?

Really, America needs to wake up! This is not just a gay rights issue; this is a women’s rights issue. We are entitled to our fantasies!



Heather Hans, LCSW, MSW, MBA, CPIC, is a Visionary, Healer & Teacher, and the author of The Heart of Self-Love: How to Radiate with ConfidenceIt is Heather's firm belief that loving oneself is necessary to have fulfilling relationships and a successful life.  Join Heather’s 30-Day confidence challenge at